Spiritual Rebirth: The Samaritan Woman at the Well

The Samaritan woman at the well is no angel. Mixed up with a wrong crowd, this poor woman from Samaria has quite a reputation. She had been married five times and was living in sin with a man who wasn't her husband.

Through her story comes the lesson that people shouldn't live by carnal pleasure. The story also shows that a well of grace is ready to refresh the soul parched by sin and suffering and that Jesus comes to save the sick and to serve those who still need both physical and spiritual healing — not only the converted.

Her story is also relevant because it becomes an antecedent of Christian practices — that one may seek God's forgiveness for wrongdoing.

In some Christian religions, including Catholicism and Orthodox, seeking forgiveness is the basis for the sacrament of Reconciliation (confession). Every faith has a teaching and belief that God forgives sin and that repentance is always possible. The Jewish feast of Yom Kippur and Islam's Ramadan are also examples of seeking forgiveness and showing atonement for sin.

The woman at the well had her sins "washed away" by Jesus. The story shows that Jesus offers divine mercy in the living water of grace, which washes away sins and cleanses souls. The woman went to the well to get a jug of water. Instead, she got much more, including a cleansed and refreshed spiritual life.

Going to the well

Because of her lowly status, the Samaritan woman goes to the well during the hottest point of the day to avoid the wagging tongues of her fellow townspeople. Most other people were taking siestas at this time; nobody in his or her right mind is out in the noonday sun. The woman of Samaria knows this and seizes the opportunity to get water for her home without being bothered.

Jews didn't normally travel on a Samaritan road, but Jesus chose to walk this way anyway. He comes upon the well, where he meets the Samaritan woman and asks her for a drink of water. The woman, who understands her low social status in the eyes of a Jew, is astonished that this pious Jew requests water from her.

Experiencing renewed spirit

Jesus uses the water as a metaphor to teach this woman. He speaks about the living water, which gives eternal life, divine grace, or God's life within the soul. The woman craves this type of water, because she wants to have eternal life. But first Jesus has a lengthy but candid dialogue with her. He makes her understand that she needs to confess her sins and change her life before she can obtain this life-giving water — grace. Jesus shows her that he already knows she is living with a man who is not her husband.

Jesus said to her, "Go, call your husband, and come back." The woman answered him, "I have no husband." Jesus said to her, "You are right in saying, 'I have no husband'; for you have had five husbands, and the one you have now is not your husband. What you have said is true!"

John 4:16–18

The woman said to him, "I know that Messiah is coming" (who is called Christ). "When he comes, he will proclaim all things to us." Jesus said to her, "I am he, the one who is speaking to you."

John 4:25–26

The Samaritan woman's spirit is enlightened, accelerated, and illuminated by Jesus. She now realizes what it means to take freely of the water of life, which is the spiritual refreshment that comes into her soul after her encounter and confession with Jesus. Not only was she impressed that Jesus knew all her sins, but she was also given the opportunity to have those sins forgiven. She believes he is truly the Messiah, the Anointed One. She repents of her past misdeeds and goes back to tell her family, friends, and neighbors how she met Jesus and how he revealed his knowledge of her sins and his offer of live-giving water, which brings eternal life. She went on to lead many conversions in this area through her zeal and love for God (John 4:39–42).

The Samaritan woman doesn't appear again in scripture, but for centuries afterward, numerous spiritual writers, theologians, and scholars retold and pondered her encounter with Jesus. Augustine (AD 354–430), for instance, uses the example of the woman at the well to describe the spiritual thirst the human heart has for goodness and truth and that thirst is never quenched until people are in the presence of God forever (after they die and leave this earth).

Comments (17)

  1. Posted by Katy
    great stuff. helped me get a great grade on my religious education course! thanks the lot. keep doing what your doing. xxx
  2. Posted by Carey
    There is one part that is incorrect, and that is the part about the woman "changing her life to receive grace." Jesus teaches that He meets us exactly where's we're at. We are all flawed and in need of grace. Jesus hung out with the "lowliest" of people, but didn't ask them to change first. I would consider changing that. Thanks!
  3. Posted by Victoria
    I had studied this lesson but with this I was able to get a greater simplier explanation. Thank you
  4. Posted by crissy
    this really helped me in my New Testament Class. honestly b 4 this, i did not know about the samaritan woman. thank you
  5. Posted by The Reverend Mary Ellen Cassini
    Are you sure about the circumstances of her previous marriages? Was she a widow? Was she in arranged marriages? Where is your proof from the text to support your assumptions? In the days of Jesus women had no freedom or power to decide marriage.
  6. Posted by Bethoven
    To: Reverend Mary, The fact that the woman is in Samaria, no explanation is necessary. Those that are driven out of Yisrael are sinners or those who marries out of their own tribes.
  7. Posted by 1Womenatthewell
    I am like the women at the well. I carry the guilt and shame everyday of my life. My last husband was not a christian and decided to divorce me. After a request for counseling I looked to the scritptures for direction and found that I was not boud to remain in the marriage since my ex was not a Christian and therefore didn't stand in his way for his requested divorce. My previous marriages were at a younger age. I was a young Christain at the time who felt it correct to marry instead of living in sin. The earlier divorces were conducted of my request due to adultry or abuse. One marriage was totally at my fault, I was backslided and cheated on my then christian husband. He wanted to still work it out but I requested the divorce bacause of my own shame. I am now still carrying much shame today. I have began dating again, but have a real issue when it comes to speaking about my past marital history. I know God has forgiven me and know understand to sacred union of marriage and now am in prayer for God to grant me one more chance at finding a mate. I believe it is not good for healthy sexual men or women who still have high sex drives to go about dating for long periods of time because we will soon find ourselves in a situation of sex outside of marriage. Divorce ceased to become an option with me before I married my last husband. I repented of any further divorces and therefore did not participate in the activating the action. My unbelieving husband, in which I am still friends with, requested to leave and acording to the bible, I was free to let him go. My issue is that I need to forgive myself so that I can go one. If God should ever upon his grace allow me to remarry once again, I know the man whom I marry will not judge me because if my past if he loves me. He will be concerned in which he should but I belive the love he will have will be as the love of God. I know I will probably have many repond to this post with speculation and judgmental attitudes, I expect this because if human nature. I hope I will encounter feed back from well meaning Christians who what to give insite to what God may say so they can share with me here. Thank you
  8. Posted by mwp
    Womenatthewell: I would commend two books to you Forgive to Live by Dr. Dick Tibbits and Forgive for Good by Dr. Fred Luskin. Both give you the "tools" to learn how to forgive - yes forgiveness is a skill that can be learned. Unfortunately it is rarely if ever taught in our churches today. Another site that will give you inspiration to forgive is the Forgiveness Project - they have a great video on youtube - theforgivenessproject - the hardest word. I have recently been learning and teaching about the skill of forgiveness - something I have needed in my own life. If you'd like to talk more you can contact me by e-mail at mwpluvbasa@hotmail.com Blessings.
  9. Posted by Goldi
    I, too, am the woman by the well. I was raised in a Lutheran Church (ELCA), got pregnant and was taken to a Lutheran Pastor for counseling. It wasn't my Lutheran Pastor. I sat there with the pastor and my mother for 15 minutes and just kept repeating that I didn't want an abortion. My mother took me to have an abortion (gave me a pretty package with a bright bow on top before I went in - a diamond studded cross necklace). I had the abortion that I didn't want to have. After that, I was married and divorced three times. Now, I have a Godly husband who doesn't care about my past (married to me for ten years now)..... I, too, am ashamed of my divorces. What can I do? Nothing.....
  10. Posted by Mary Martin
    When you meet Jesus at the well, He will forgive you of your sins, and then you will lead many to the Lord. The enemy loves to throw your past in your face, but when you are truly born again, you are a new creation in Christ Jesus, and you can tell the enemy to his face, "Uh uh, devil, that wasn't even me!"
  11. Posted by Chris
    MY ADVOCATE I sinned. And straightway, post haste, Satan flew Before the presence of the Most High God, And made this railing accusation there. He said, " This soul, this thing of clad and sod, Has sinned. ' Tis true that she has named Your name, But I demand her death, for you have said, 'The soul that sinneth, it shall die.' Shall not Your sentence be fulfilled? Is justice dead? Send now this wretched sinner to her doom. What other thing can a righteous ruler do?" And so he did accuse me day and night, And every word he spoke, O God, was true! Then quickly One rose up from God's right hand, Before whose glory angels veiled their eyes. He spoke, “Each jot and tittle of the law Must be fulfilled: the guilty sinner dies! But wait ....... Suppose her guilt were all transferred To ME and that I paid her penalty! LOOK! - My hands, My side, My feet! One day I was made sin for her, and died that she Might be presented faultless, at Your throne!" And Satan fled away. Full well he knew That he could not prevail against such love, For every word my dear Lord spoke was true! Slightly adapted from the original: ~Martha Snell Nicholson (From 'Poems for Sunshine and Shadow' (Vol. 1) a collection by Ord L Morrow, published by ’Back to the Bible'
  12. Posted by Annaly
    This is a great article regardless of what faith you are, but for Christians a basic lesson. Meet people where they are and remember His grace is for all .
  13. Posted by Rev Eli
    I think you really missed the point as most people do. Women were nothing more than chattel, a possession during the first century. They did not divorce their husbands, their husbands could simply give them a letter of divorcement and they had to leave everything, family, possessions, even children. This woman was not a sinner as much as she was a victim of a cruel society, forced to live with a man because she could not support herself any other way then prostitution. Jesus gave her a hope; are we giving hope to the those who are neglected by society, are we being God's hands and feet?
  14. Posted by Steve
    I wonder about the woman at the well and our quickness to assume she is a sinner. Many commentators assume that she is a bad person. Jesus does not seem concerned with her morality or lack thereof. He simply talks to her with respect. It is to this woman that he reveals his identity "I AM". Perhaps our assumptions about her wickedness says more about us than it does her. I have trouble seeing her sin for two reasons. One, the Bible doesn't see it. Two, I have this log in my eye.
  15. Posted by Wanda Shields
    You are totally discerning this scripture under the law, focusing on sin like religion does and not the powerful which is the grace of our Lord Jesus Christ.The focus is not the womans sin, but the fact that Jesus said if she knew who her father (Father) was, she would have no need of the husbands she had. She would have been in love with Jesus as He really is and not out trying to find love time after time. The first love would have fulfilled and the endless quest for love been unneccessary.
  16. Posted by Tebogo Mabeleng
    God hate sin but loves the sinner, that is the message that we should not conderm anybody because God sees the heart and we don't.
  17. Posted by albert
    the woman was a prophetess...i think you have an incorrect understanding of the story though there you've derived a moral lesson out of it.

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