Negotiate a Respectable Rate for Mom Blog Services
Many people have a difficult time setting a fair price for the services they offer. Mom bloggers are particularly disadvantaged because what they offer isn’t a flat product or service. A freelance writer can charge by the article, word count, or by the hour.
It is more difficult to put a value on your personality and influence, because this is an intangible thing that varies widely depending on your experience, followers, and even the topic you blog about. Many people find it so difficult to measure their own influence that they give up on trying to put a value on it.
Keep in mind that the reason brands approach you is because they value your influence — so you should, too. Ultimately, you are helping them sell their products and services — a fact that you should use to your advantage if you find yourself negotiating with a brand about your compensation.
Any time you communicate with a brand representative, frame your statements in a way that showcases what you bring to the table. Highlight what you are giving to the potential project — your influence, your audience, your voice, your contribution to their bottom line. When you are clear about what you offer, it’s much easier to ask for compensation commensurate with your experience.
To help you come to a ballpark valuation of one of your sponsored blog posts, there are a few ways you can calculate a number. The going rate for quality, impression-based online advertising is usually between $1 and $15 per 1,000 impressions. The average is usually between $3 and $10. Only you can decide what rate feels right for your blog.
Say you’ve been asked to run a contest for your readers, and your sponsor is offering a prize worth $50 — and is also offering you the same prize for running the contest. The following steps calculate the number of impressions you think you can deliver:
Estimate the number of views the contest blog post will likely get.
You can do this by looking at past contest post views in your analytics program. This is the number of views just for this one post, not for your entire blog.
Factor in social media mentions.
Factor in any tweets or Facebook mentions you may be able to include by adding up your Twitter followers, Facebook friends, or Facebook fan-page fans. Only include the numbers if you will be promoting your contest on the other sites.
Add how many RSS subscribers your blog has.
Add how many people you have on your mailing list if you have one.
Only include this number if you will be promoting your contest to your mailing list.
Take that the total number and divide it by 1000.
Multiply that number by the dollar rate you want to charge.
You can use the steps just given to get the formula to calculate fair compensation:
Page Views + Social Media + RSS Subscribers + Mailing List = Number of Impressions
Number of Impressions / 1000 x Dollar Rate = Fair Compensation
For example, your contest post will get about 3,000 page views, you have 1,500 Twitter followers, 200 Facebook fan-page fans, and 500 RSS subscribers. That’s approximately 5,200 impressions, and you feel that charging $10 per 1,000 impressions is fair. So that gives you a dollar amount of around $50 as a baseline to value one of your contest posts.
A different way to value this contest post is to calculate the time it takes you to write the post and administer the contest. Then you can choose an hourly rate for the time involved.
Now factor in what the contest sponsor is offering you:
If the free $50 product they offered you is something that you want, then you might decide to do the contest for no extra charge.
If the sponsor hadn’t offered one of the products to you, you could ask for $50 compensation to run the contest.
Perhaps the brand can offer you a mention on its own Facebook page, and that page has 500,000 fans. Is that worth $50 to you?
Perhaps the brand is willing to feature you on its website, too. Is that worth $50 to you?
The only way you are going to know if what your sponsor is offering is fair is by having a baseline number to compare to.

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archive
1. (noun) A list of previous blog posts, in chronological order. 2. (verb) To place files or blog posts in a safer place (on DVD or another server) for longer-term or backup storage.

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attribute
Used in an HTML tag to give an instruction to a Web browser. For example, in This link goes to <a href="http://www.google.com">Google</a>, the <a> tag gets an attribute (href) and a value ("http://www.google.com") to go along with the basic tag. In this case, the attribute indicates to the browser that what comes next is a hypertext reference — in this case, a Web page.

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blacklist
An often-centralized list of e-mail addresses, URLs, and IP addresses used by spammers that are then forbidden in any blog post on your blog. With an up-to-date blacklist, a lot of spam is stopped before it becomes a comment.

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block
To stop all contact with a MySpace user. He can’t comment on your blog page or send you any message that you actually receive.

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blog
A combination of the words Web and log. Bloggers (individuals, groups, or businesses) post a chronological log of information. Content is determined entirely by the author(s) of the blog; many are personal journals.

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blog post
An entry in a blog, possibly containing text, images, and other media.

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blogger
The author of a blog.

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blogging policy
Outlines what you’re allowed to post in your blog.

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blogging software
Technology that enables you to blog. Can be either hosted or nonhosted.

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blogroll
A collection of links used or recommended by a blogger.

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cookie
A short piece of computer code, stored on your computer, that enables Web sites to remember certain settings and information the next time you visit that site.

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Dashboard
A kind of control panel in Blogger that shows you the blogs you’ve set up, giving you access posting, using help resources, or even creating another blog.

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definition list
A type of HTML list that gives a term and then its definition and has built-in spacing to lay out those elements properly.

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disk space
Amount of room available on your hard drive.

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domain
A domain is the address, or main URL, that people type in the browser to get to your Web site. The domain name you choose can’t be used by anyone else.

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domain registrar
A service that enables you to register a domain name.

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entry
An single posting in a blog containing text, images, or other media, or any combination of those things.

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Facebook
A social-networking service that enables you to keep in contact with families and friends via the Web.

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Flickr
A Web site that allows you to share, organize, edit, and otherwise manage your photos.

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Friend List
Your virtual online address book in MySpace. You can become someone’s friend by either sending a fellow MySpacer a Friend Request or by being on the receiving end of a Friend Request from another MySpace user.

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hosted services
Manages the data, software, and Web hosting of a blog; the blogger just manages the content.

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HTML
The computer coding used by Web designers to create Web pages.

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hyperlink
A navigation tool that allows a user to go from one Web location to another by clicking. Hyperinks (or just links) are typically underlined.

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hypertext reference
In HTML, the address that a hyperlink connects to when clicked. For example, in This link goes to <a href="http://www.google.com">Google</a>, the hypertext reference (href) is http://www.google.com. Hyperlink references can also jump to new positions on the same page, open a new e-mail message, or begin a file download.

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link
Short for hyperlink, a navigation tool that allows a user to go from one Web location to another by clicking. Links are typically underlined.

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Mom test
A self-test that flags inappropriate blog posts. If you’d let your mom read the post, then it’s probably passed the Mom test. Specifically, don’t blog about topics you think will hurt others; don’t blog about others without their permission, even about topics you consider inconsequential; and don’t identify friends and lovers by name without their permission.

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MySpace
A social-networking service that enables you to keep in contact with families and friends via the Web.

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MySpace profile
Your MySpace identity. It can contain as much or as little information about you as you’d like.

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news aggregation
The ability to aggregate news by using RSS feeds. Having a news aggregator included with your blog package allows your site to pull in information from another blog.

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nonhosted service
Blog software that you set up on your own Web server. It allows you to take on all responsibilities related to maintaining your blog.

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ordered list
Contains items that must be listed in a particular order, such as a list of ranks or preferences. It may also indicate a list of steps for the reader to follow.

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pinging
An automated notification system for search engines and newsreaders, letting those services know that your blog has been updated. A ping occurs when one computer asks another whether it’s there; the second computer confirms its presence.

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post
1. (noun) An entry in a blog containing text, images, other media, or any combination of these. 2. (verb) The act of creating and/or uploading a blog entry.

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private profile
A MySpace profile that’s limited on who can view it, such as only people on your Friend List.

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public domain
The status of publications, processes, and product designs that are free from copyrights and/or patents and are available for anyone's use.

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social network
A service, such as Facebook or MySpace, that enables to keep in touch with people you know — and meet people you don’t know.

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spam
Unsolicited electronic messages sent in bulk that may be commercial, nonsensical, or malicious. In addition to e-mail spam, blog comments and blog forums can be targeted by spammers.

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tag
A relevant keyword associated or assigned to a piece of information, such as an image, a blog entry, or a video clip. Tags are usually chosen informally by the content creator or by the online community; they help give content to nontext media and organize information for ease of searching.

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Trackback
A technology that tracks references to a blog posting that occurs on other blogs. They allow bloggers to link to blog posts on related topics.

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transparent
1. Being honest and truthful on your blog. Also means that you admit mistakes and engage in dialogue with readers who leave comments. Considered proper blogging etiquette. 2. Integration of applications, programs, and media from different sources in such a way that the end user is unaware that the content is not self-contained.

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unordered list
unordered list is a series of bulleted items and is used for lists that don’t require numbering.

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video blog
A blog consisting of video files, or the practice of placing a video file in a blog post.

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video-sharing service
A service, such as YouTube, that enables you to share video with others.

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Web host
The Web server where you software, graphics, and other files live online.

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Web server
Technology that looks at what Web page is requested and then feeds the browser the appropriate file. It does most of the hard work of serving Web pages to visitors coming to your Web site.

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whitelist
A list of preselected users who are allowed to comment on your blog.

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YouTube
A video-sharing service.