How to Turn Down Advertisers for Your Mom Blog
As a blogger, your personal brand and blog’s brand are your biggest assets and should be protected as though they’re gold, because they are. So it’s quite important for you to choose what advertisers you work with carefully. This isn’t such a big concern with big brands, because it’s going to be clearer to determine who you want to associate yourself with.
Sometimes it’s harder to determine whether a small business is a good match for you, because it may not have built up a reputation that you can evaluate.
The best way to gauge whether an advertiser is a good fit for your business is to review the following questions:
Would you take on this advertiser if money wasn’t an option? If your blog was financially successful and you had the luxury of turning this advertiser down, would you? If the answer is yes, then you should probably turn down that advertiser now.
Would other sponsors feel comfortable being associated with this advertiser? If this is a company that could be perceived as untrustworthy, or in an industry associated with scams, then you could potentially scare away other more appropriate advertising partners.
Can you really deliver results for this advertiser? It is best to work with advertisers when you have a win/win/win scenario: Your readers win because they like the product, you win because you have advertising revenue, and your advertiser wins because it has actually gained new customers from working with you.
Would your readers really want to buy this product or service? Don’t promote anything you wouldn’t be willing to buy yourself, because you never want to lose your readers’ trust. Maintaining trust with your audience is more important than any advertiser on the planet.
Does this product or service fit with my niche? If you’re blogging about raising ADHD children, you probably won’t offer a lot of value to an advertiser like Home Depot.
When would you want to fire an advertiser? Well, it’s mostly when you find that a company is (or has become) one you no longer want to be associated with, for whatever reason. You might also find that the marketing/advertising rep is demanding or difficult to work with, or starts to fit into some of the negative categories described in the preceding questions.
Whatever you do, don’t burn a bridge. The blogging and online advertising community is a small world, and you may find that burning one bridge has also burned several more without your realizing it.

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archive
1. (noun) A list of previous blog posts, in chronological order. 2. (verb) To place files or blog posts in a safer place (on DVD or another server) for longer-term or backup storage.

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attribute
Used in an HTML tag to give an instruction to a Web browser. For example, in This link goes to <a href="http://www.google.com">Google</a>, the <a> tag gets an attribute (href) and a value ("http://www.google.com") to go along with the basic tag. In this case, the attribute indicates to the browser that what comes next is a hypertext reference — in this case, a Web page.

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blacklist
An often-centralized list of e-mail addresses, URLs, and IP addresses used by spammers that are then forbidden in any blog post on your blog. With an up-to-date blacklist, a lot of spam is stopped before it becomes a comment.

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block
To stop all contact with a MySpace user. He can’t comment on your blog page or send you any message that you actually receive.

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blog
A combination of the words Web and log. Bloggers (individuals, groups, or businesses) post a chronological log of information. Content is determined entirely by the author(s) of the blog; many are personal journals.

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blog post
An entry in a blog, possibly containing text, images, and other media.

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blogger
The author of a blog.

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blogging policy
Outlines what you’re allowed to post in your blog.

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blogging software
Technology that enables you to blog. Can be either hosted or nonhosted.

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blogroll
A collection of links used or recommended by a blogger.

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cookie
A short piece of computer code, stored on your computer, that enables Web sites to remember certain settings and information the next time you visit that site.

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Dashboard
A kind of control panel in Blogger that shows you the blogs you’ve set up, giving you access posting, using help resources, or even creating another blog.

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definition list
A type of HTML list that gives a term and then its definition and has built-in spacing to lay out those elements properly.

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disk space
Amount of room available on your hard drive.

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domain
A domain is the address, or main URL, that people type in the browser to get to your Web site. The domain name you choose can’t be used by anyone else.

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domain registrar
A service that enables you to register a domain name.

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entry
An single posting in a blog containing text, images, or other media, or any combination of those things.

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Facebook
A social-networking service that enables you to keep in contact with families and friends via the Web.

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Flickr
A Web site that allows you to share, organize, edit, and otherwise manage your photos.

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Friend List
Your virtual online address book in MySpace. You can become someone’s friend by either sending a fellow MySpacer a Friend Request or by being on the receiving end of a Friend Request from another MySpace user.

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hosted services
Manages the data, software, and Web hosting of a blog; the blogger just manages the content.

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HTML
The computer coding used by Web designers to create Web pages.

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hyperlink
A navigation tool that allows a user to go from one Web location to another by clicking. Hyperinks (or just links) are typically underlined.

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hypertext reference
In HTML, the address that a hyperlink connects to when clicked. For example, in This link goes to <a href="http://www.google.com">Google</a>, the hypertext reference (href) is http://www.google.com. Hyperlink references can also jump to new positions on the same page, open a new e-mail message, or begin a file download.

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link
Short for hyperlink, a navigation tool that allows a user to go from one Web location to another by clicking. Links are typically underlined.

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Mom test
A self-test that flags inappropriate blog posts. If you’d let your mom read the post, then it’s probably passed the Mom test. Specifically, don’t blog about topics you think will hurt others; don’t blog about others without their permission, even about topics you consider inconsequential; and don’t identify friends and lovers by name without their permission.

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MySpace
A social-networking service that enables you to keep in contact with families and friends via the Web.

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MySpace profile
Your MySpace identity. It can contain as much or as little information about you as you’d like.

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news aggregation
The ability to aggregate news by using RSS feeds. Having a news aggregator included with your blog package allows your site to pull in information from another blog.

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nonhosted service
Blog software that you set up on your own Web server. It allows you to take on all responsibilities related to maintaining your blog.

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ordered list
Contains items that must be listed in a particular order, such as a list of ranks or preferences. It may also indicate a list of steps for the reader to follow.

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pinging
An automated notification system for search engines and newsreaders, letting those services know that your blog has been updated. A ping occurs when one computer asks another whether it’s there; the second computer confirms its presence.

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post
1. (noun) An entry in a blog containing text, images, other media, or any combination of these. 2. (verb) The act of creating and/or uploading a blog entry.

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private profile
A MySpace profile that’s limited on who can view it, such as only people on your Friend List.

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public domain
The status of publications, processes, and product designs that are free from copyrights and/or patents and are available for anyone's use.

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social network
A service, such as Facebook or MySpace, that enables to keep in touch with people you know — and meet people you don’t know.

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spam
Unsolicited electronic messages sent in bulk that may be commercial, nonsensical, or malicious. In addition to e-mail spam, blog comments and blog forums can be targeted by spammers.

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tag
A relevant keyword associated or assigned to a piece of information, such as an image, a blog entry, or a video clip. Tags are usually chosen informally by the content creator or by the online community; they help give content to nontext media and organize information for ease of searching.

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Trackback
A technology that tracks references to a blog posting that occurs on other blogs. They allow bloggers to link to blog posts on related topics.

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transparent
1. Being honest and truthful on your blog. Also means that you admit mistakes and engage in dialogue with readers who leave comments. Considered proper blogging etiquette. 2. Integration of applications, programs, and media from different sources in such a way that the end user is unaware that the content is not self-contained.

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unordered list
unordered list is a series of bulleted items and is used for lists that don’t require numbering.

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video blog
A blog consisting of video files, or the practice of placing a video file in a blog post.

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video-sharing service
A service, such as YouTube, that enables you to share video with others.

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Web host
The Web server where you software, graphics, and other files live online.

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Web server
Technology that looks at what Web page is requested and then feeds the browser the appropriate file. It does most of the hard work of serving Web pages to visitors coming to your Web site.

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whitelist
A list of preselected users who are allowed to comment on your blog.

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YouTube
A video-sharing service.