How to Train Your Dog to Give Back after Fetching
Getting your dog to give up an object he has just fetched is the trickiest part of the retrieve, especially if you’ve chased your dog for things in the past. Never chase your dog to get her to give you what she has in her mouth. Instead, teach the Give command and be patient!
Pull up a chair and line up some treats plus your dog’s favorite toy.
Call your dog over, show her the toy, and praise her when she takes it.
With a treat in hand, say Give.
The treat should induce her to drop the toy. If your canine-brain is so food-obsessed that she can’t think of anything else, forget the treat and use extra amounts of praise.
To signal Give, hold your open palm in front of your dog’s mouth.
Praise and reward the second she releases the toy.
Go to a hallway or an enclosed space. Toss the toy.
Praise your dog the moment she picks it up, go to her and say Give as you reward the release.
Don’t make her come to you then ask her to relinquish her prize; that negative reinforcement just encourages her not to come when called.
Your dog may release the ball as you approach or toss it on the ground near you. Although this is acceptable when starting out, you eventually need to be more selective with your rewards because the goal is to have your dog drop her prize onto your outstretched hand. If he tosses the toy on the ground, ignore her, show her a new toy and encourage her to give you that toy.
If your dog won’t relax his jaws for love or dog cookies, you can use the pressure point behind her upper canine teeth or fangs. Reach your thumb and forefinger around your dog’s muzzle and squeeze this spot as you say Give. Praise your dog the instant her jaw muscles relax. (If your dog becomes aggressive, stop immediately and call a professional — you’ve got a pet aggression problem.)
Avoid overdoing it. Don’t toss objects all day, saying Bring, Bring, Bring, or you’ll find your dog avoiding you, saying No, No, No! Each Bring lesson should be no more than 5 to 10 minutes. And no more than four lessons a day! If your lessons are upbeat, the dog will retain the behavior much better than if they’re long and frustrating.
After your dog understands that when you say Bring, you want the object you pointed to and when you say Give, it’s a hand delivery you’re looking for, then you’re ready to help her connect the two talents.
Go to a hallway or small room, like the bathroom.
Give the toy a short toss and instruct Bring.
Cheer your dog back to you when she grabs the toy.
Extend your hand to retrieve the object and say Give.
When she releases the toy, reward her (praise or treats) for a job well done!
Repeat Steps 2 through 5 twice, and then stop.
If your dog gets so excited that she can’t hold onto the toy, you might be rushing it. Go back to simple bringing and progress more slowly.