Does your cat knead your lap with her front paws? This slow, deliberate motion is kittenlike and a compliment to you. Secure cats exhibit this behavior with people they trust. Kneading reminds cats of the warmth they experienced as nursing kittens. The kneading that once brought about the flow of mother's milk symbolizes contentment in the adult cat. Often people are bothered by this behavior, not knowing why their cats are messing up their clothing. Cats become confused when owners reject the kneading ritual. If your cat needs to knead, try laying a towel on your lap to provide a suitable surface for those kitty claws.